A $1000 lunch date

Over the weekend, The Business Times broke the news that my company It's Just Lunch Asia  has launched a new Men's Elite Club that charges clients $1,000 for a very exclusive lunch date. This got a lot of people talking because until we launched this, no other agencies in Singapore has successfully cornered this particular segment of the singles market.

To date, we have 28 single, MALE clients who have jumped on the bandwagon to benefit from this service. Essentially, this is an enhanced dating service that allows clients to achieve a specific dating outcome. Other privileges include:-

1. A designated, personal matchmaker (who's highly trained in the art of matchmaking)  to sift through potential candidates

2. Access to exclusive photos of candidates that clients will be meeting

3. Candidates are sourced from within the It's Just Lunch 12,000 database as well as from outside

4. A personal profile will be sent to clients to review prior to an arranged meeting

5. Personal questions are asked in advance to ensure a higher level of certainty for clients

The Elite Membership allows clients to be in the driver's seat as they work with a personal matchmaker to carefully pick and choose the person they'd like to settle down with, permanently.

Here's the Business Times article that has been picked up by AsiaOne, MyPaper as well as Shin Min Daily.  

Do women really like bad boys? 5 tips in finding Mr Right (bad boy or not)

His chiselled scruffy looks could attract women from every corner of the globe… you know he could be a player… but somehow there's just something risky about him that leaves your heart aflutter…

Why do bad boys attract women more often than nice men? What is it in their appeal that makes women fall for men who treat them badly? After all, the profile of a bad boy is as follows: a person who seldom calls or texts, appearing somewhat aloof, indifferent or arrogant, a rebel that defines his own rules instead of following them, chauvinistic, confident… and casts such a mysterious shroud that leaves you pondering his next move and waiting with bated breath for his call.

Is there any wonder why many women are mesmerised by their elusive yet mysterious appeal? Regardless whether you are into bad boys or the boy-next-door, fret not. Here we handpick five tips on finding your right kind of person (bad boy or not).

 1. Write a list of attributes you like to look for in an ideal man – Writing down what you want in an ideal man establishes a very important component of human behavior- commitment. When you write down what you want, you are realizing your thoughts or visions, thereby bringing them into reality. This means they become something of more substance and it reaches your subconscious, enabling you to be more aware of hot opportunities.

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8 Tips To Assess If He’s That Into You

Great news: You've met a wonderful man! Good looks? Checked. Great personality? Checked. And if you could draw up your Dream Man material checklist now, he would make ticks on most of the boxes. It's obvious; you're into him. Oh but wait. Is he into you as well?

Before you start pressurizing him to label your way to Coupledom, these 8 signs will help assess if he's really that into you…or not.

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Dating Reinvented for the 21st Century


Dating in the 21st century is much different than what it was in the previous century. While the desire for love and companionship has remained unchanged, all the different way of meeting people these days has ironically made it even more difficult for people to find their potential partners. Admittedly, our busy work schedules and lifestyles have made it close to impossible to find the time to suss out the wheat from the chaff.

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Five Things To Do When Making a Good First Impression

In a fast paced world where creating a good first impression is key to building trust and relationship, why are so many people still guilty of committing the same mistakes?

Whether you’re in a social or professional setting, leaving a good first impression could go a long way in helping you open many doors of opportunities.

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Are all the good men taken? Really?


How many times have you heard the phrase, “All the good men are taken. Those around are either married or gay!” This seems to be the number 1 excuse given by single women who are (a) looking at the wrong places (b) giving up without even trying to be pro-active (c) recently heart-broken women who have yet to find someone who she can share a loving, committed relationship with.



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Nine First Date Mistakes That Guarantee Zero Chance of a Second

Sure, you always try to make a great impression. But you may unwittingly be making these common moves that send a guy the wrong signal—and even scare him off. It’s best to delay the “real you” stuff until later in the relationship.

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Looks are everything to men, or is it?

“Set me up with the most beautiful girl on your database!”

I cannot remember a time when a man comes to my interview sessions and says he’s willing to compromise on looks! When I was first bewildered by such requirements, I have come to anticipate such remarks to the extent that I would find it strange if a man whom I interview never brings up the issue about “looks”.

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5 Surprising Things Men Find Attractive

How many times have you heard, "Men fall in love with their eyes?"  A lot, I'll bet. It's true, to a certain extent.  Men are visual creatures, and their initial attraction to any woman will be primarily inspired by her appearance.  Primarily.  Men don't fall for women they don't find visually appealing.

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Anisa Hassan is an award-winning entrepreneur and an internationally certified trainer, speaker and coach of the John Maxwell Group – a world renowned expert in leadership. Anisa specializes in topics relating to business and professional management. Her vast knowledge and experience in managing interpersonal relations make her presentations lively, impactful and insightful. Currently, Anisa engages management and leadership audiences through her public and corporate workshops all across ASEAN.
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